
it’s not a weird take to say cishets don’t belong in queer spaces, that’s common sense. it is weird to be like “well you exclude trans women out of spaces they belong in, so you can’t come invade our space.” cishets wouldn’t belong in queer spaces even if they were accepting of trans women in women’s spaces.
I said “it’s fine for cishet women to go to the gay bar with friends, but going on their own to a queer space as a straight person is a misuse.” she got upset about it and took it personally so I assumed she was a straight woman. then she did a “gotcha!” by revealing she was actually sapphic and just defending her cishet friends who went with her… idk why she took it personally when it wasn’t even about her or her friends 😭 but whatever