Fr like the only ppl that have ‘liked’ me were men who saw me as a woman despite me clearly saying otherwise (either they wanted to ‘fix me’ or stopped having feels when I told them my identity (which is valid!)) or ppl who had a fetish… and normal women (when I wasn’t aware I was trans) 😭💀
There are lots of pansexuals who aren’t creeps, even if some folks are nightmares. A big problem is the people who don’t ask before giving sexual compliments—like not everybody wants that kind of attention, especially if it makes them feel fetishized and objectified—but I highly encourage my fellow pan friends to just ask what your partner likes to be called and respect boundaries