Anonymous #2 1d

People are able to comprehend drag queens identifying as gay men but using she/her, but can’t seem to comprehend the opposite

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Anonymous gipsum 1d

trans talk head mod save us

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Anonymous OP 1d

You both just cleared up and explained a lot to me now, thangya

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Anonymous #2 1d

Understood! 💜🤝

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Anonymous #9 1d

piece of fiction btw

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Anonymous #15 1d

fiction can still have profound effect

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Anonymous #16 22h

not as well. that’s what we’re talking about.

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Anonymous #4 21h

It doesn’t seem like it based off some of the comments talking about pronouns not always equaling gender😭 I’m not coming at anyone, I’m just curious if this was specific or more general

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Anonymous #16 21h

show me 1 instance of this happening in real life

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Anonymous #18 19h

I made no comment about whether this happens irl or not and I’m not even commenting on my personal opinion on it. Just curious the specificity of this post.

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Anonymous #16 15h

trans men cant identify as lesbians because they are men. however, transmasculine lesbians are lesbians because their masculinity itsnt tied to their gender identity.

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Anonymous #19 13h

i really couldn’t care less what other people identify as because i don’t think it’s that important

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Anonymous #19 13h

I totally agree and I’m tired of being treated like I’m insane for thinking it’s invalidating for both identities for a MAN to call himself a lesbian. transmasculine lesbians: gender-nonconforming, leaning toward masculine presentation. not a man. can be lesbian trans men: not a lesbian because MEN are not lesbians

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Anonymous #15 11h

It’s actually loosely based on feinbergs life

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Anonymous #15 2h

Thats like saying someone isnt a pedophile bc they’re crushing on fictional characters im ngl, fiction can affect real life

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Anonymous #20 2h

im asking this out of genuine confusion/curiosity & not malice. i always thought the definition of lesbian was a woman who likes other women. so someone who identifies as non-binary & uses they/them pronouns or views themselves in a way other than being a woman wouldnt use the term lesbian as much as they would simply queer or smth right? but yall r saying smth diff so now im confused🫤

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Anonymous #22 2h

imo labels' meanings are always changing and can have different feelings for different people. i'm a transman, and i AM a man, but i still have parts of my identity rooted in being afab and raised female. that doesn't make me less of a man, just queer. so i can see how someone in my similar position (transmasc or transman) who's attracted solely to women could be more comfortable with the label "lesbian" than "straight," esp since "straight" can have a non- or anti-queer connotation.

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Anonymous #6 2h

mmm that makes sense! thank u for explaining🫶

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