LGBTQIA+ on Yik Yak | semi-specific but does anyone else fantasize about someone kissing their scars? i have multiple from heart surgery and i think about how nice it must feel for a guy to kiss mine.

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LGBTQIA+ 1d

semi-specific but does anyone else fantasize about someone kissing their scars? i have multiple from heart surgery and i think about how nice it must feel for a guy to kiss mine.

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Anonymous 1d

i think scars are very aesthetically pleasing

Anonymous 20h

I’m generally pretty self conscious about my surgery scars, but my girlfriend loves kissing them

Anonymous 19h

absolutely yes, I love admiring scars on a partner’s body and I love when a partner expresses interest in my own scars + generally imo there’s something so intimate about being able to bond with someone around medical stuff. I’ve been chronically ill since childhood and it’s really important to me that people I date be willing to learn about that area of my life and support me around it rather than treating it like something external to our relationship

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#3 17h

holy shit this nailed down my exact thoughts for when i start dating

Anonymous

OP 16h

it can be frustratingly difficult to find people you wanna date who intuitively understand the importance of showing an investment in your experiences with the medical system and whatnot, so personally I tend to prefer dating other people who are chronically ill / disabled or who at least already demonstrate an interest in disability justice politics

Anonymous

OP 16h

(but that being said, don’t be discouraged—there definitely are also plenty of able-bodied people who will happily show up for you in this way, they just might need a little guidance & educating at first)

Anonymous

#3 16h

i'm fine with educating or having to explain my medical history, i've done that part with friends before, but i just want a boyfriend who can love me AND my scars and not feel like i need to change my appearance for him