
while i was at the fen one of the nature center girlies told me about their resident dragonfly scientist who came in(so cool) and was taking dragonfly genital pics for their research(lol) and their mating position is called the wheel and apparently is in the shape of a heart which is another rlly cute fact i learned recently
it was like genuine nonsense idek, their point was basically “if a woman put in effort when a man was already courting another woman she would win their affection bc women aren’t active in courtship usually” which like just doesn’t make sense or consider people just have preferences and that sapphic dating is different than straight dating