Anonymous #4 6w

also like girldick is cool and sexy

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Anonymous #5 6w

Literally

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people like this exist and it’s crazy you think being queer makes you immune 💀

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yeah wish i couldve picked a word other than femcels but i could literally say the same thing if the genders are flipped. Less of a criticism of a specific sexuality or sexual tribalism, its more of a criticism of specific personalities within the queer community that think theyre exempt from spreading hate due to being queer.

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it might not be the way you act but it is the way some people in the community act and saying that people are lying is extremely harmful

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It’s not all or even most lesbians but I’ve met one or two who hold these views and act like this. It’s a very vocal minority I think. Either way, anyone can be bigoted no matter what label they use or are

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girl there’s femcels and TERFs in every group, the ones in the lesbian community simply use the fact that they’re lesbians to justify it. it’s a small but loud group and we’re allowed to be pissed at them. idk why you think anyone’s stereotyping or being lesbiphobic when we’re calling out those who abuse their identity to defend themselves.

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it’s the same principle as having a strap which plenty of us use so go off i guess .

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found the TERF femcel who blames trans women for why she gets no play

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Jesus Christ that’s transphobic to put it in quotes what is your issue, truly ?

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it’s not like that though, you’re literally being transphobic by saying they’re not a woman unless they have bottom surgery. Some people cannot afford it

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That’s like saying “I’m fine with gay people, I just don’t want them shoving it in my face” and the fact that you can’t see the textbook bigotry is hilariously bad

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Anonymous #4 6w

And they’re still a woman, period. Go cry about it.

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Anonymous #4 6w

And it’s not about being attracted to the dick, it’s about being attracted to the woman and she happens to come with a dick just like someone brings a strap on. It’s simply a tool. It’s like saying you’re repulsed by moles then don’t date people with moles. It doesn’t change their whole identity because they have a mole lol

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There’s a difference between sex and gender that you cant wrap your head around, and are you kidding me???? “Trans ideology has rotted your brain”????? You don’t hear how that sounds exactly like the people who picket colleges with bibles and megaphones????????

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hey so if you’re not here to talk about kissing pretty girls get the fuck off my post

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“I have no problem with trans women” then says they aren’t woman enough to be lesbians lmao

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hey are you talking about pretty girls? no? get off my post

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Ofc sex is what you’re born with and gender is what you identify with/as, pretty simple stuff once you learn the difference

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well thats not talking about pretty girls, thats using it as an excuse to be here to spout your transphobic bullshit. your argument is worthless bc you arnt going to convince anyone of your bigotry so why even try m

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girl i hate to say it but nothing they said is lesbiphobic. there are chronically online lesbians that act like this and they are a stain on our community. every group in the queer community has shitty ppl, and it’s not queerphobic to call it out.

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Pronouns and labels like male, female, nonbinary, demigirl, demiboy, etc. that doesn’t touch on neopronouns and such but honestly I’m not very well educated on them nor do I use them so I don’t think I’m the person to try explaining them

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“I’m so mad. im gonna have sex with my girl friend so i wont be so mad” — Sonic the Hedgehog

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Anonymous #1 6w

“hey babe these online meanies are being really mean because they keep telling me trans women are women ☹️”

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people who are attracted to women date women, which includes trans women. I know it’s a hard concept but if you put your mind to it you can get it!

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“Trans women” because being trans is part of their identity NOT because they “aren’t women”

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Trans people still have to fight for their rights but what world are you living in that oppression olympics decides this???

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Prolly when we learned that there’s a difference between sex and gender

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BIG INCORRECT BUZZER have you ever felt body disphoria? Gender disphoria? People have tried to stay in the closet to stay safe and they lead terrible and fearful lives shut up man

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they can accept it, it’s people like you who can’t

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It is when you complain and be transphobic and whine abt them living their lives, yes

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No, accept that who they are on the inside isn’t who they are on the outside and that some people will stupidly hate them for it

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It’s not “dealing with criticism” it’s dealing with death threats and bullying and ppl and laws against them its literally so much bigger than that

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I know you’re not saying that, but it’s the fact that ppl online do feel comfortable saying that and much worse, and saying you don’t hate trans ppl and then saying they aren’t “real women” is literally the oldest bigoted trick in the book my friend

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Bro when did this become a thread about transphobia like just kiss girls and move on

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It quite literally isn’t but even if it were how would that justify it?? Spreading hate and leading ppl to isolate themselves or worse because of science????

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Sorry, “science”*

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No they aren’t man what are you saying?? Sex and gender and two different things that’s not a debate, get tf off this post

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I’m referring to transphobia online and irl in general here, not you specifically

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Sex is what you’re born with, gender is what you identify as. Pronouns and gender don’t always match sex this is common knowledge

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Yeah it’s because breakthroughs happen. Ppl weren’t taking it seriously before, now they are, now there’s research on it. That’s how science works don’t you know?

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Ofc ofc I’m honestly gonna block you now this is more of a headache than it’s worth

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they used to think bleeding people like pigs was a good idea, and even 10 years of progress in the medical industry can mean 20% of the stuff doctors learned in med school at the time is now wrong. medical progress is a given. gender isnt medical though, it’s a social construct.

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btw gender is a social construct and you can easily prove this by the fact you treat people like men/women by how they look and are dressed rather than grabbing their pants or drawing blood for a karyotype. some fun facts: only 1% of the US population knows their chromosomes, everyone else just assumes from their ASAB. doctors base ASAB on the length of your genitals at birth btw so it’s not very accurate even for sex lmao

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trans people have existed for millennia, you simply haven’t heard about it. doesn’t make them any less real. one of the most well-known is Public Universal Friend

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Anonymous #15 6w

as long as you don’t mention your genital preference for no reason, and as long as you’re chill with lesbians who don’t have a genital preference :)

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Anonymous #8 6w

Oh yeah of course lmao (So sorry if that’s not what my comment implied, definitely one still has to be respectful)

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Anonymous #15 6w

yeah just clarifying since someone downvoted your comment rip

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Anonymous #8 6w

Eh, people will be people 🤷‍♀️

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“I haven’t seen it so that means it doesn’t happen☝️🤓” - some dumb fuck on yik yak yet again

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dawg you are the one not believing in science if you actually think this is the case 100% of the time

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Hope she finds out how disgusting of a human being you are and you get left alone

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Being of a certain group does not exclude you from being phobic to your group. Hope this helps 🥰

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Anonymous #18 6w

same!!!

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Anonymous #19 6w

i don’t really care about you and what your opinions are on this tbh

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Anonymous #19 6w

You could have kept that a lot shorter and just said “I’m a transphobic idiot”.

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Anonymous OP 6w

I don’t need you to care not do I want you to. Just speaking my mind the same way everyone else is doing here! Hope this helps :)

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Anonymous #21 6w

I could have, but I didn’t lol

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Anonymous #19 6w

you’re free to speak your mind and we’re free to call you the anti-science bigot that you are

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Anonymous #19 6w

Okay, and? You wouldn’t, that doesn’t mean other lesbians won’t.

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Anonymous #19 6w

And you’re a bigot. Hope this helps 🖕

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Anonymous #23 6w

fr like i said in the post, if other lesbians didn’t, then i would not be going on the dates i am lol

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Anonymous #24 6w

Would you date a post-vaginoplasty Trans woman?

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Anonymous #24 6w

Literally no, some people have trauma or just don’t feel comfortable, I was thinking the same thing lol.. ik I wouldn’t be comfortable being sexually active until they got that situated- guys is that okay?!

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Anonymous #21 6w

Probably, I have nothing against trans folks so I don’t see why not

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Anonymous #24 6w

That sounds fine to me, but that’s not what this post was about. It’s like what #15 said in their comment.

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Anonymous #24 6w

having a preference is absolutely ok, it just depends on the tone of how you approach it (for example “ew no, i don’t date trans women” vs “oh im sorry im not interested”)

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Anonymous #24 6w

nah. genital prefence is valid, even if it sometimes sucks to hear for us. the important thing about it is that you dont use it to be a bigot, and you dont bring it up unless the situation actually calls for it

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Anonymous #23 6w

Good thing I’m not speaking for other lesbians yay!

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Anonymous OP 6w

Okay? Insulting me isn’t doing much for ya now is it 🤭

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Anonymous #19 6w

im not insulting you. im telling you what you’re being. trans people are supported by science and trans women are women

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Anonymous OP 6w

Okay? I never said they weren’t. I simply implied my preference💀

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Anonymous #19 6w

hate to break it to you, but no one asked or cares. sorry not sorry :)

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Anonymous #8 6w

Damn imagine thinking I give a fuck😂😂😂😂I said what I said & you’re angry about it womp womp

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scroll down more to #24s comment this has been discussed!

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Anonymous #27 6w

again read under 24

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Anonymous #4 6w

I mean…yea?? A lot of lesbians have a genital preference, if you’re a trans woman it’s pretty safe to assume she has a dick but no less of a woman, only so few trans women actually get bottom surgery because of the risks

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Anonymous OP 6w

Oop I see it now, Thank you, I think I skipped it over

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Anonymous #27 6w

its not pretty safe actually because 4-13% of us have bottom surgery. Not to mention the reason many of us don’t have it is because it costs a fuck ton of money, not the risks

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Anonymous #27 6w

you clearly don’t really know much about what you’re talking about when it comez to us trans people, but i don’t really get the sense you’re malicious, just uniformed

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Anonymous OP 6w

Vaginoplasties have improved significantly over the decades and many surgeons are fantastic. The techniques available these days are even better. Money and not needing surgery are definitely the biggest factors. Mostly money getting in the way.

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Anonymous #21 6w

yeah it sucks. i would love to get it asap but im nowhere near that kind of money. its pretty cool though how bc of how far modern vaginoplasties have come they’ve become practically indistinguishable from a homegrown one

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Anonymous #19 6w

you sound like straight person in a queer thread. "EWWWWW I WOULDNT DATE A WOMAN SORRY NOT SORRY" ok we didn't wanna date you either?

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damn didn’t know i was a robot.

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Anonymous OP 6w

We learn something knew everyday kiddo🐕

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Anonymous #19 6w

New *

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Imagine being a transphobic POS and thinking your nonsense has any sort of importance, especially when you don’t. 😂

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Anonymous #19 6w

still cant figure out why you think anyone wanted to date you 😂 you keep yapping bud! someone sounds upset no girl has kissed them!

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Anonymous #19 6w

no woman will ever relate to you, you sound actually insane 💀

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Anonymous #19 5w

you can have genitalia preferences but you don’t gotta be a dick about it

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Anonymous OP 5w

The use of homegrown here is so funny; it’s the most fitting word but for some reason it’s killing me. Like, “I grew this vagina at home in a corner of my vegetable garden. I grew cucumbers, strawberries, and my vagina 😌” lmao

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yalls loss, more pretty girls for the rest of us

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They’re biological women. Unless they’re made of plasma or stone all of a sudden?

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Still biological women. Not every one of them has XY, and that doesn’t really mean anything. 🥱

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Yes, we know you’re delusional. They’re real women. Far better than anyone you could hope to be with.

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your hairline is entirely too far receded for you to have a valid opinion in this argument

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They’re still women. We know damn well you’re not dating anyone, either. You’re clearly a dude 🤣

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No assumptions made, you’ve made it very clear. 😂

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we get it bro your parents didn’t give you enough attention growing up

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Sounds to me like you’re just projecting because you were turned down. 🤣

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Anonymous #29 5w

He’s really upset about that hairline of his 🤣

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Anonymous #8 5w

I actually hadn’t heard of that person before. I’m gonna go down a rabbit hole now, thanks!

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Anonymous OP 5w

So like I said, it’s pretty safe to assume since, like you just confirmed, few trans women get bottom surgery It’s ok for cis women to have genital preferences, it’s ok for trans people to have genital preferences, it doesn’t make any of them transphobic for having a preference, no? Is it not ok to have a genital preference? I’m not calling them any less women

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Anonymous #27 5w

I’m not saying any of this to be mean either, it’s how it is, trans women are women and trans men are men Everyone in and out of the community can have a genital preference

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Anonymous #8 5w

I sound insane because I like cis women 🥹?

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Anonymous #27 5w

up to 1 in 10 is not few mate

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