this is crazy (+ proof gay people can still be homophobic). looking visibly gay/butch doesnt make you not look like a woman if you’re a woman & same for looking gay/fem if you’re a man. exact same energy and exactly as gross as judging guys for dating fem guys or implying that it’s not gay enough/replicating heterosexual or something. your preferences end at you, you do not get to judge other ppl’s preferences and def dont get to say someone doesnt look man/woman enough