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for me, being agender means i’m never content. no matter how i cut my hair, no matter how i wear my clothes, no matter what i am perceived in some gendered way. so the only way for me to be perceived how i want is to put in the effort of androgyny. (pt 1)
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basically my goal would be for people to not know what gender i identify as. i’m afab, so in order to look androgynous there are certain things i would need to do that i don’t want to. for instance, when i cut my hair super short and masculine it doesn’t let my loose curls shine through. also im not skinny and i have a bit of a larger chest so i really just can’t accomplish masculinity like i used to be when i was younger. and i still enjoy feminine things but doing so makes me dysphoric (2)

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