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Am I gay? I am currently in a polyamorous relationship. There’s Andy (19), me (20) , Pete (19) and Joanna (20). Joanna has recently began transitioning into a male - while Andy is becoming female. I’m just worried will this make me gay since (1/X)
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Anonymous 2w

bro is living in a word problem

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Anonymous 2w

hey so first of all if you’re referring to a trans person use their chosen name only. second of all being with a trans woman such as andrea wouldn’t be gay because shes a girl. Getting with Jo would be gay however because hes a guy

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Anonymous 2w

I think its time for an orgy to rlly see

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Anonymous 2w

I’m not sure I understand how you’re poly but “worried” about looking gay who cares if it’s gay, regardless of context? figure out what’s best for you and everyone else, not whats least gay

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Anonymous 2w

Since Joanna used to be the woman of our group.. she’s already started going by Joe and Andy is starting to go by Andrea. I don’t have a sexual relationship with the other men - purely with Joanna and i’d like it to stay that way, but if Joanna becomes Joe - would that mean i’d need to be sexual with Andy? I’m contemplating our relationship now, and feel uncomfortable.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Joanna doesn’t mind being called Joanna or Joe.. same with Andy/Andrea

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

and none of them have fully transitioned.. they’re like half and half right now we’re supposed to be having a long talk tonight but idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You don’t “need” to do anything — if you’re uncomfortable with something, don’t do it. If you only want to be with cis women then sounds like you might just not be compatible with this relationship anymore.

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