Anonymous #1 1d

I hate how often this phrase is used to dismiss anything and everything.

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Anonymous #4 22h

Yeah that’s because what someone else chooses to do with their sex lives is not my business or concern unless it’s illegal

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Anonymous #1 22h

Thats true but can we talk about how many kinks are rooted in trauma and if that trauma was addressed in therapy they might be able to express their desires in a healthier way…

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Anonymous OP 20h

Not everyone can afford or wants therapy. Shaming them for what they choose to do to address their trauma is not beneficial to anyone

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Anonymous #1 20h

Well no there’s healthy and unhealthy ways to address your trauma… People have to know when a method isn’t healthy

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Anonymous OP 19h

Ok, well I’m not going to automatically assume someone’s kink is based on or rooted in trauma. You can go ahead and tell a stranger you know what’s best for them. Healthy/unhealthy is largely subjective to the person, and it’s not my business to make assumptions based off of a Grindr bio

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Anonymous #1 19h

Im trying to be respectful but… you can absolutely tell when somethings not healthy such as wanting a man to abuse and degrade you sexually and call you transphobic slurs? Are u slow no shade?

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Anonymous #1 18h

Like the profile literally states how they love to be beaten, degraded, called slurs, and more; and you can’t tell how that’s unhealthy? OP may not be, but I’m definitely throwing shade because the fuck? sorry not sorry

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Anonymous OP 18h

Lmao that tells me everything I need to know about you. If I’m slow then you’re really something else. Again, if that is what you like sexually and you’re going through life fine and happy and functioning, then so be it. Idk how plainly that can be stated but then again..

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