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Anonymous 1w

babe, and i say this in the most respectful way possible, you prob need some therapy and work through how you feel about relationships before getting into a new one or worrying about another relationship

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Anonymous 1w

You should end that relationship. You owe it to yourself. You will find another person who will love you better- which is a low bar on account of the neglect and degradation. You shouldn’t just find something better for yourself- but something actually healthy and affectionate. I believe you can do that. I’m rooting for you

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Anonymous 1w
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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

This is also very applicable to me:

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Thank you. I do deserve better, but it’s just scary as hell too, y’know?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Im not looking for a new relationship right now, dw. I also have a wonderful therapist. We just haven’t talked much about relationships is all. I also had a few previous relationships where things were much worse, never had a healthy one, so I’m still just trying to learn. I always do my best to learn when I fuck up, and I always embrace communication and understanding. But yeah, it also feels like Im missing crucial things to understand. Especially about not letting my needs be cast aside.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

Do you mean with the whole “tolerating neglect and abuse hoping things will change with interventions” thing is what I should be focused on?

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