I’m a bi man and I don’t say that I’m bi on dating apps because it usually scares people away. A lot of gay men and especially straight women seem to think we’re subhuman or whatever. So I just don’t put anything for my own peace of mind

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I don’t trust anyone who doesn’t put their sexuality bc in my experience those are the people just looking for sex or experimenting or are just looking for friends and since I’m looking for an actual relationship I want to see some kind of confirmation that the person isn’t a straight women. I’m a lesbian so it might be different for gay men. Like I would imagine gay men don’t have the problem of straight men trying to use the app to just make friends but maybe they do

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It usually is a red flag and honestly not worth your time

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