Not real friends if they’re calling you slurs outta their own discomfort

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that's the thing about being a bi woman nobody fucking takes you seriously people are biphobic as shit. yell at them about how they are being biphobic until they shut up

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those are not you real friends if they are doing all that. you deserve to feel comfortable around your friends and the people you trust no matter who you like. they shouldn’t care, much less be making jokes about something that is already an issue for bi people

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Leave them tbh. They’re toxic. I’m pan but dating a guy, that doesn’t make me straight just like you liking a guy doesn’t make you straight. It’s part of how we identify. If they are being biphobic and not taking you seriously then you need to leave them and find people who will respect you. What they’re doing is immature and not ok at all.

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That’s not okay at all, I’m so sorry. They shouldn’t be making comments like that in the first place obviously, but it’s especially concerning that they’re not even listening to you when you tell them to stop, like not to throw the term around but they’re basically gaslighting you. Real friends should think it’s exciting when you have a crush on someone, and they definitely don’t invalidate your sexuality and call you a bitch. You deserve better people in your life, girl

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you need better friends then. good friends will never tell you you’re being a bitch cause you bring up what’s making you uncomfortable

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So fucking what they dont control you

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