The only remotely feasible critique would be if a bi woman in a het relationship commented on how hard it is for visibly queer couples to exist in society. I assume you are not included with this niche pocket case, and thus ppl being pricks are either just that, pricks, or are brainrotted with discourse cooked up by soyjak party et al to foster queer infighting and destabilize queer communities
are we assuming that just bc a woman is in a het relationship at present, she’s never been in a visibly queer relationship and thus has no room to speak? bc that’s yet another part of the problem right there. most if not all the bi women I know (incl myself) have dated more women than men, but the second we get with a man people make wild assumptions like we’re lying about being queer or that we’ve never actually been with a woman romantically and we just do it to hookup