i think ur taking this too personallyโฆ being able to bed rot is a good thing, i personally believe itโs part of our healing. some people just donโt have that opportunity; i remember when i was never allowed to, so it makes me much more appreciative that i have more freedom to do so. thatโs just my experience tho
iโm sorry that your experience with bedrotting is different, but obviously what i said doesnโt apply to you when you say you are in pain? bed rotting can be a positive experience for some and negative for others. you really are reading too much into it because itโs not that serious and my comment was not an attack on you. wishing you peace rn
Thatโs why I do it too, but you need to take things that arenโt directed at you less seriously for your own state of wellbeing. I promise it wasnโt deep. Life will get a lot easier if you just learn to say โscrew itโ and move on. People take life way too seriously which is how some people find themselves so deep in depression. Donโt let other peopleโs words get to you because weโre all going thru something. Weโre only here once.