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I’m a lesbian but recently I’ve found myself interested in my best friend. He’s always there for me and I love him dearly but I’ve never found him physically attractive. Now suddenly I keep feeling sexually interested in him and Im confused
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Anonymous 1d

Sexuality is fluid, sometimes it changes, sometimes it doesnt. No matter what, never feel guilty or like you’re betraying your label or the community for being a human and being attracted to who you’re attracted to.

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Anonymous 1d

I wouldn't stress over the label too much for now. For me, I'm a bi girl, but it's rare for me to be attracted to men. I like bi/gay as a general label for me. If you like this boy and would consider being with him, I say go for it! No matter what, you are still a valid member of this community!❤️🌈

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

I greatly appreciate you guys! Unfortunately it’s not that I’m concerned about the label. I’m more so confused because I don’t find him physically attractive but emotionally and safety wise I do and it’s confusing

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