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i feel like a freak 😭 i’m trans masc but when it comes to relationships i feel like if i am with a woman im a butch lesbian in a lesbian relationship or with a man our relationship is gay is that weird or does anyone else feel this 😭
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Anonymous 3w

You are just real gay like I consider myself bigender and in relationships I feel like it’s gay whether I’m with a woman or a man or anything in between you can 100% be trans and genderqueer you don’t even have to pick a label just say Yur gay that’s what I do

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Anonymous 3w

I’m nonbinary and I feel pretty similar The way I identify is dependent on both how I feel about myself and how I feel within a relationship

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Anonymous 3w

I relate to this

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Anonymous 3w

Historically there has been a lot of crossover and gray area between butches/studs and trans men. It’s the main argument in favor of he/him lesbians- that you can do a ton of man stuff (like pronouns and masc transition) without being a man (if you don’t WANT to be a man)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

okok i’m glad it’s not just me. cause i know for sure i am MASC but i’ve been going between trans man/masc bc if i did end up with a woman, which i wont bc i have a wonderful trans boyfriend, i would feel like a butch he/him lesbian in a trans masc sorta way so im glad it’s not just me that fluctuates depending on relationships

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You can be a trans man and trans masc. like queerness is about breaking binaries and I think seeing nonbinary and binary trans as a binary is just another binary to break

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