
Ok wait cause I’m also lowkey kinda confused too😭like I may understand the technicality of how that would work but the lack of sexual attraction to the other person would just throw me off and so I’d assume that’s the same for the people engaging in it. Which if at that point why even do it. But that’s just me
Lots of lesbians have sex with men as a way to repress their sexuality, convince themselves they are straight or just haven’t quite realized *why* they don’t enjoy sex with men. That makes sense to me. If you are actively having and enjoying sex with men.. u wouldn’t be a lesbian tho ?
Sexuality isn’t changed by your actions but sex is an action? Intention matters too but talking abt having sex and sexual behavior i think it’s safe to assume it’s with mutual enjoyment, with the exception of unrealized/repressed identities and asexuals. Ppl having sex with some1 they aren’t attracted to is a small minority id say so to claim what OP is saying so broadly seems kinda harmful without context or nuance