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Fetishes can be weird but also deeply personal and kinkshaming is weird when it’s something that does not hurt anyone else and is safe sane and consensual
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Anonymous 15w

Yes but like it’s not always safe or consensual and shaming people for it is a natural reaction when it’s being forced on you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Someone made a joke about scat and then someone responded by kinkshaming and saying somethings wrong with them. It was a joke. Joking about things that are also fetishes or sexual does not count as “forcing it on you” if it did evrey “ur mom” joke is forcing the idea of sex, and I can shame the concept of fucking now

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

I’m talking about my personal experience. Also I didn’t even think your mom jokes are always about sex. For my personal experiences people have tried to force their kink on me and I have the right to shame that person. And you have the right to shame sex if you want.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Well my post isn’t about your personal experience as someone forcing it on you is not “does not hurt anyone” as it hurt you. So it does not apply, your comment is irrelevant to my post

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Your post is irrelevant to the larger topic as it’s highly contextualized and specific to one single interaction.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

There is no interaction specifically. I’m saying that kinkshaming safe sane consensual things is weird

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

OK, so you talked about one specific interaction and now you’re saying there is no specific interaction you said someone made a joke now you’re saying that didn’t happen?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Ok it’s weird now what?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Don’t do it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

I gave context to why I posted it as your comment had nothing to do with my post, my post is a general thing but created because of a specific post

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Why not because you think it’s weird? So ig if i think something is weird i should tell people not to do it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

I’m saying that it’s weird to post about how much you think someone’s kink is gross. You don’t need to say that, it’s weird. You should let other people do what they want if it’s safe sane and consensual, and if ur worried about them, if they’re in harm, reach out to proper people

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

So there was a specific post. Which you just said there was no specific post. That’s kind of confusing. You should probably lock in that answer. And I’m not saying anything about your safe consensual thing I’m saying it’s not always safe or consensual.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

So I guess your response to my comment is irrelevant

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

You can let people do what they want while also thinking it’s gross and weird. Revolutionary concept I know.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Yes but you don’t have to post about it or try to police it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

How Is it confusing that I am making a general statement after seeing a post that reminded me of my stance

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

It’s like seeing a pride post and making your own. It’s something you belive in, but posted because of another, yet standing on its own

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

And you don’t have to post about it and try to police them, but you do because you wanted to and it’s your first amendment right to post about it complain about it. Talk shit about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

It’s confusing because you made your post you told me my comment was irrelevant to the conversation because your post was made on a specific interaction and then you went on and said your post isn’t about a specific interaction. It’s a general post.

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