Someone made a joke about scat and then someone responded by kinkshaming and saying somethings wrong with them. It was a joke. Joking about things that are also fetishes or sexual does not count as “forcing it on you” if it did evrey “ur mom” joke is forcing the idea of sex, and I can shame the concept of fucking now
I’m saying that it’s weird to post about how much you think someone’s kink is gross. You don’t need to say that, it’s weird. You should let other people do what they want if it’s safe sane and consensual, and if ur worried about them, if they’re in harm, reach out to proper people