i disagree w most of the comments- sounds like ur queer and haven’t decentered men yet. would u not date a woman or can u not imagine it yet bc it hasn’t happened to u yet? mayb u would fantasize abt women1:1, if u knew what sex felt like with them is like. mayb ur operating off of only what u know. despite what’s said here- it’s fine to experiment, that’s how we all figure it out!! u just have to experiment ETHICALLY. disclose to ur queer potential partners that u r exploring ur sexuality.
So update if anyone cares. 9 weeks later, I have discovered I am indeed bisexual and am now dating women. Thank you to the people who weren’t judgmental about my questions. Given the religious household I grew up in I guess threesomes were the way my brain could safely begin to explore the possibility because I’d never allowed myself to think about women like that before. Although looking back, I’m realizing I had so many obvious girl crushes over the years 🙈
Im the same way except with dudes lol. I dont think im Bi? Like id do MMF 3some but like.. I dont find mens features attractive. The sex like.. shared with F partner sounds hot tho. Not a strong craving, and im fine with being bi. I dont know if im bi, or just a submissive person and kinda enjoy the taboo.
FYI, for many people in the community, bringing up threesomes can be in poor taste bc theres a lot of catfishing that goes on (people lie+say they want a relationship but they really want a threesome with their bf 😑) or other nonsense thats legit attention seeking and can harm people in the community.
Questioning is never a bad thing, and I appreciate that you’re trying to figure stuff out. I also hope you can understand how bringing ffm threesomes with a focus on men into discourse could have pinched a (validly sensitive) nerve. As for figuring yourself out, try fantasies about just women, watch wlw media, see you feel about it! Attraction to women should not be men-centric.