Anonymous #3 23h

in your analogy, white people would be straight and bisexuals would be a POC group. we’re all discriminated against so dying on this hill during pride month instead of celebrating is dumb as hell.

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Anonymous #3 23h

They do acknowledge it 😭😭

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Anonymous OP 23h

literally and people keep bringing it up as if they’re saying something new

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Anonymous #2 23h

It’s so counter productive too!!! “Yeah I as a queer person am going to discriminate against other queer people” I mean are we being serious right now

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Anonymous #3 19h

Nobody is denying that omg 😭😭😭 you are actually just making shit up to be mad at

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Anonymous #4 19h

THISSSSSSS

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Anonymous OP 19h

I think it’s also nuts to require people to experience a certain amount of homophobia to be seen as “valid” no one should have to deal with any homophobia and holding that as the standard for queerness is just the new version of oh poor me look at my struggle!

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Anonymous #3 19h

The point is bisexual people weren’t biological born with privilege. The artificially-constructed heteronormative system gave them a specific privilege. That’s not fair to Bi people for you to put a target on them just because they were born with a particular sexuality. Again, it’s literally not their fault!!! BE MAD AT THE SYSTEM!!

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Anonymous #5 19h

Thisss!!!! This self-serving one-upping and competition for who has been more discriminated against is still homophobia!!! It’s getting to a point where a lot of queer people feed off of homophobia to gatekeep other people’s place in an already marginalized community!!! You worded it in a very good way. NOBODY should have to deal with it.

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Anonymous OP 19h

Black people were also not biologically born without privilege. That is also an artificially constructed system. We are mad at the system, AND it’s still important for people with privilege to acknowledge that they have privilege.

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Anonymous OP 19h

It’s not our fault that we have privilege, and we still have privilege. It’s not white passing POC’s faults that they have privilege either

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We literally do acknowledge it. What do you want us to do bow down to you but I’m sorry I’m not gonna bow down to people when they’re calling us sluts or serial cheaters. The queer community has bigger things to worry about from this stupid in fighting like the fact that trans people are being murdered in the streets and that our rights are being eroded away. As well as the rampant racism that runs through some parts of the community.

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Anonymous #4 19h

RIGHT. our community is facing enough right now to be divided over something like this

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Anonymous #4 19h

I am bi. I do not want you to bow down to me 😭 I never called us sluts or serial cheaters. There are multiple people in this group who have gotten defensive and denied having privilege (and received heavy support for it). That is all. Neither I nor 3 have insulted bi people or said any of what OP and 5 seem to think we have. We’re just saying that acknowledging intersectionality and privilege is important

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Anonymous OP 19h

Who in this comment section is discriminating against other queer people? I didn’t see that in any of 3s comments?

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Anonymous #6 19h

I’m literally also trying to point out that we need intersectionality and I wasn’t saying that you were the one who was saying this, but they are a whole bunch of people who are. But also, when we ask what the privilege is, we’re met with people upset with us for not knowing most of us are trying to understand or at least I am.

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Anonymous #5 18h

Again, who in this comment section is saying that we need to “require people to experience a certain amount of homophobia to be seen as ‘valid’”? I can’t seem to find that comment from 3 anywhere.

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Anonymous #4 18h

That is generally understood when we’re talking about intersectionality and privilege. Nobody is blaming us for having privilege, and having privilege isn’t a bad thing.

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Anonymous #4 18h

You asked if I want bi people to bow to me, and in the same sentence said that you’re not going to bow down to people when they're calling us sluts or serial cheaters. Having bigger problems in the world does not make this argument less valid. That’s a fallacy.

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Anonymous #4 18h

We do agree that we need intersectionality. That’s good. I also do agree that people need to be better about explaining the privileges we have, rather than assuming we know that we have them

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Anonymous #6 18h

Maybe I want a little too far and I am sorry for that. I was trying to say this bi hate needs to stop and we need to be intersectional.

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Anonymous #4 18h

It think when I was talking about bowing was that ever time I try to understand the privilege and deconstruct it I am met with hate and vitriol

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Anonymous #4 18h

Thank you. I was caught up in my frustration as well, so I’m sorry for assuming the worst in your comments. We definitely agree on that. Bi hate needs to stop, and we do need to be intersectional

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Anonymous #6 18h

It’s not your fault, but it’s your responsibility 🤷🏽‍♂️

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Anonymous #4 18h

That makes sense. Thank you for explaining what you meant by the bowing comment

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Anonymous #6 18h

Of course it’s my fault for not explaining it well in the first place

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Anonymous #3 18h

That’s very true. As a bi person, the privilege that comes with it is my responsibility, and I need to be mindful of it

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Anonymous #3 18h

Seems like you’ve been commenting on all the posts about bi people. If that’s true, maybe contemplate why you’re spending so much energy trying to drag down a subset of the queer community. That’s a lot of time and effort to spend on something, so it seems like there’s some underlying reason.

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Anonymous #7 18h

The underlying reason is that I do not like y‘all. And half the posts about it mention me so ofc I’m gonna chime in.

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Anonymous #3 18h

well THAT part was clear, but what’s your issue with bi people

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Anonymous #1 18h

Im done explaining it. Go to the OG post and read the replies cause i explained it like 20 times. #16

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Anonymous #3 18h

Oh it’s you

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Anonymous #3 18h

What the FUCK is your problem with bi people?? They’re just trying to live their life the same as you and bisexual people have literally never said anything about anyone else’s relationship. Heterosexual people have always judged homosexual people and homosexual people have always judged bisexual people, but bisexual people have never judged either. Just because you’re queer doesn’t mean you aren’t a bigot.

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Anonymous #6 18h

It’s not in this post but 3 has been all over commenting biphobic things and in this post up above admits to not liking bisexual people

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Anonymous #3 18h

Never got to use this on the og chat so

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Anonymous OP 18h

Facts

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Anonymous #3 18h

You literally don’t know me, a bi person, and you don’t like me? Seriously? Who needs the alt right when people inside the community are so hateful and judgmental. You’re acting like a baby, and you really need to talk to a therapist

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Anonymous #4 18h

It’s me! #stanillit

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Anonymous #3 18h

Bless your heart

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Anonymous #3 18h

Fuck off

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Anonymous #4 18h

Y‘all love saying that but don’t stop for a second to consider how ableist that really is

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”All quiet on the frontal lobe“ isn’t giving ableism to you?

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It mean I am not think dumb ass? What do you even mean

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Anonymous #3 11h

“you’re not using your brain” isnt ableist it’s just saying you’re not using your brain, lmao. you’re so obviously grasping for straws 😭

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