Anonymous #1 1w

Yeah that’s what I did mostly... but it's still odd since I just spent like an hour beforehand talking with another queer person (with him present) about the queer experience and how dudes would often hit on me and how I've started to think about immediately coming out to people when I meet them so guys don’t get the wrong idea

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Anonymous OP 1w

Idk I’m so extra stressed bc he waited for me to have a full conversation about sexuality and its nuance and how I came to the conclusion that, with maybe very little exception, I think I’m only attracted to women

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Anonymous OP 1w

In my experience… they tend to think they can change your mind.. and will even wait around to see if you do.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Wait so he listened to that conversation and still came to the conclusion that he should do that?

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Anonymous #2 1w

I would straight up be like uh I’m sorry but you were here for this conversation.. that’s my response

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Anonymous #2 1w

Yeah that’s the part that baffles me so extra He even asked smthn like "are you sure you don’t like guys" and I was like. Idk I’m sometimes attracted to androgynous or feminine guys (of which he is neither) but I specified my attraction is still weirdly fleeting w those It's the extra shocking part, I didn’t expect it at ALL

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Anonymous OP 1w

If a straight guy asks me if I’m sure I’m not attracted to guys or something like that I like to be like “are you sure you’re not attracted to guys?” Because for me it’s basically the same thing 😭

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Anonymous #2 1w

Ya usually I drop that but I thought he was just inquiring bc I spent a while being like. I think I’m bi when I first came out. And he did mention like that he thought I was bi so I was clarifying

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Anonymous #3 1w

But he's my friend and clearly in a really rough spot rn :(

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