LGBTQIA+ on Yik Yak | I need help deciphering if this is wrong or not, because my gay male friend said it is. I am a top, and as such, I like to take the more masculine role. Pay for dates, plan outings, and give flowers. How do we feel about gender roles in the community?

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LGBTQIA+ 1d

I need help deciphering if this is wrong or not, because my gay male friend said it is. I am a top, and as such, I like to take the more masculine role. Pay for dates, plan outings, and give flowers. How do we feel about gender roles in the community?

Anonymous 1d

nothing wrong w that

Anonymous 1d

Up to you and your partner. So long as you recognize the politics in general and arent replicating actual harmful roles then it up to yall

Anonymous 1d

I’m fine with them even if others aren’t. I’m a strict bottom and I like to take on a more “feminine” role. I’m submissive, and I would like to be taken out, given flowers, etc. And I’m small and short too. If some people see that as imitating heterosexuality then so be it, but I’m still a man even if I’m small and a bottom

Anonymous 1d

I feel like that's in line with aftercare etiquitte as a top more than dividing men into masculine and feminine

Anonymous 38m

I'm a bi man, who would absolutely melt for someone doing this for me so like, not wrong at all