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Okay okay okay— I enjoy dressing fem, and looking fem, and am AFAB, but call me a man PLEASE. I just want to be referred to as male..? I thought I was Genderfluid for the longest time but idk. I might be trans. Am I trans? I don’t fucking know atp.
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Anonymous 6w

feel like i need to put out the obligatory disclaimer that you don’t need a specific label to define yourself, labels aren’t boxes to fit in or something you even need to have. live as u wish identify as u wish its all made up and we’ll be dead in 80 years anyway!

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Anonymous 6w

I think you’re a trans femboy. Someone who’s mtf and also a feminine-leaning man 🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous 6w

the way I’m going through this exact same situation is wild!! Im so glad I’m not the only one 😭🤝

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Anonymous 5w

you could be! i’m a femme tguy and have only recently been comfortable to call myself that. there are plenty of feminine trans guys and it doesn’t make you any less trans :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

🤝😫

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Maybe. I prefer dressing feminine most of the time, dresses, form fitting clothing, etc, but also want to be socially referred to as a man…? Idk how else to describe it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

No I gotchu, I’m the same way. I say I’m trans-nonbinary bcos I am ftm and that’s an important part of my journey but I’m also nonbinary

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Too true

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

i understand that people find comfort in labels and i’m happy for people that do and i understand it can even be a way to build community, i just think sometimes people feel a pressure to label themselves and be a specific way to “live up to” that label when they don’t have to

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

That would be FTM then

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

Ah fuck that’s my bad

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