misrepresenting 1’s point a bit there arent we?

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Not by 1 though.

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Well then, to answer your question, Ending a relationship with someone based on what they want out of that relationship is different than what I’m talking about. From what I understand Polyamory is just a *type* of relationship. The difference between it and monogamy is the Same as the difference between a friend and a Date.

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Anonymous OP 6w

Either deleted or blocked me. Either way, definitely way off from what I’m commenting on. I’m talking about traits that can’t be controlled— race, disability, being LGBTQ2S+, etc.

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Anonymous #3 6w

Would you be less attracted to a person who’s infertile?

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Anonymous #4 6w

actually yeah !

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Anonymous #5 6w

We all know that’s a lie.

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Anonymous #1 6w

anyone i’ve gotten serious with (at my older age) ive had tested for fertility, if they’re not i move on. i’m running out of time to have my own children at the hands of my ovarian issues, so no. i’m not lying! and IVF and donor sperm is too expensive in the current economy as well

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Anonymous #5 6w

But thousands for an accurate test for someone who it won’t work out with is fine 🤣 Sure, hun. If you’re so up in age, why are you on YikYak, eh?

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Anonymous #1 6w

thousands is inaccurate first off,, i’m 27 and have failing reproductive organs that are projected to have to be surgically altered or removed by 29, yeah it is a huge deal to me. and im sorry you can’t understand it. i’ve been with trans people, im literally nonbinary. it’s not personal by any means. i want children and its that simple. and the cost beats the hell out of $50-70k of fertility treatments that may not work!

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Anonymous #5 6w

Yaaaaawn. Tokenising yourself doesn’t look cool and you still cast an overarching net of discrimination that doesn’t hold up. Thousands isn’t wrong- fertility testing is not the cheapest thing. Adoption isn’t bad, either. But I’m sure you’re too “high class” for that.

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Anonymous #5 6w

Time to grow up.

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Ah, so you want to try and tokenise yourself, too? Cool, I’ll join the party. I’m trans. I don’t give a fuck if you are, too. Excluding trans people who are fertile and could be part of that process is, say it with me dipshit: Discrimination.

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Anonymous #3 6w

Brother the post literally just said to examine it. If it’s because you desperately want to naturally conceive biological children, then you’ve already examined it. Also, if your issue is truly the infertility and not the transness, then it doesn’t rlly even apply to you. Plenty of trans people are fertile

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i really don’t mean anything by it <3 i had miscarried 3 times over the last two years, and i am so wanting to be able to follow through a pregnancy before i lose that privilege. if i was with anybody that my hopes didn’t apply to, i would have no problems being with a trans or cis individual! my love has no boundaries, but it does have goals

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me too

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