
Gender doesnt have to be only two poles. You dont have to be only guy or girl but can also be smth in between, or far removed, or genderless entirely. If you have doubts about your proximity to one specific gender, then allow yourself to play all sides, and pick n choose the gender roles or performances you want to embody.
A lot of reflection and internal assessment. Engage with Trans folks and share your experiences, see what may overlap or differ. Try new pronouns with those you feel safe with, explain your reasoning and that you’re on this journey of self discovery. It’s not always black-and-white for everyone and that’s okay!
- Would you prefer to live your life as another gender? That’s basically it. You don’t necessarily have to hate your body, want to dress a certain way, or fantasize/imagine yourself as another gender frequently, but all of these things may coincide. It all comes down to whether or not you want to be another gender