
That's real, my thing is I assumed I was aro but then I started obsessing about this one guy after he cuddled me, we're through now bo he disappointed me but I literally had the whole butterflies in the stomach stereotypical shit (and bc i thought i was aro before this i legit feel insane), but I've also had really nice experiences with women and it's never given me butterflies per se but it was really meaningful and could be read as romantic (we'd talk about getting married sometimes haha)
So I’m definitely some flavor or bi/panromantic but also still kinda aromantic, I was just expected to be attracted to women when I was younger but now that I realize I’m not a man I’m losing that expectation and I’m lowkey kinda wishing I was attracted to women more while also still scared bc childhood bs