Anonymous #2 16h

Bored and looking for attention

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Anonymous #2 14h

some bisexual women feel entitled to the lesbians attraction and some lesbians feel entitled to bi women's attraction by virtue of both being wlw in some form

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Anonymous #4 14h

no it's more the bean soup what-about-me-isms 😅

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Anonymous #6 14h

people don't argue it but it's definitely an issue in sapphic spaces and culture to feel entitled to someone's attraction by virtue of both having a similar lived experience

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Anonymous OP 14h

This is not a big enough problem for you to make a post about it bro

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Anonymous #1 13h

low key with all the biphobia vs lesbophobia discourse in this place it kinda is 😋

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Anonymous #8 13h

girl i need u to bffr rn... where does this mention bi ppl

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Anonymous OP 13h

No it’s not because nobody in that discourse is saying that you are entitled to dating someone just because yall are both wlw

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Anonymous OP 13h

Like I have not actually seen a single comment or post either way of anyone being “entitled” to someone’s attraction and if you can find it I’d love to see a screenshot!

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Anonymous #1 12h

that's fine, i was mostly speaking from my experience in sapphic spaces, if you haven't felt that then i'm genuinely happy for you because it means there's some way healthier environments

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Anonymous OP 12h

Do you have ANY actual examples of this…

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Anonymous #1 12h

yes, as i've said, my lived experience is "an actual example" even if it's not tangible for you, i promise my goal wasn't to start discourse 💔

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Anonymous OP 12h

I’m asking for screenshots and SPECIFICS 💔🫩 because it’s starting to sound like you view someone saying that “a preference that specifically excludes bisexual people or lesbians is bi or lesbian phobia” as “entitlement” when that’s just not what that is I FEARR

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Anonymous #1 12h

i mean i guess? i don't personally believe in using exclusive labels for myself but i think they're valid if someone really identifies with that

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Anonymous OP 12h

Bean soup??

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Anonymous #4 12h

kinda like, it's the hyper individualism of thinking that you should be attractive to those who are inherently attracted to a specific gender

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Anonymous OP 12h

Ok so that’s not feeling entitled to them liking you tho. Like if a white person said “oh yeah I don’t like dating minorities I ONLY date white people” and you responded with “that’s racist” you aren’t trying to force them to date a minority you are calling out a bias that they have.

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Anonymous OP 12h

Girl huh? How does this play out in real life like not doubting it just confused

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Anonymous #4 12h

low key this post was abt being a t4t/nb4t butch lesbian and how most femmes/fems felt entitled to my time, energy, and affection

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Anonymous OP 10h

Wait me too TRUUUUUUU one time a cis fem asked me after i said i was t4t "wait arent butches supposed to like fems? Like, fem-fems?" I laughed in her face but i was so fucking mad

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