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LGBTQIA+ 13w
I can’t cum with my partner and I’m so frustrated (trans guy). They’re doing everything great and I get super horny with them but I just can’t finish. They’ve been feeling really discouraged and I feel so bad. I just don’t know why I can’t
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Anonymous 13w

can you cum on your own? have you tried mutual masturbation? aka you both masturbate next to one another

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Anonymous 13w

This is the first time I’ve been with anyone sexually, too, so I don’t even really know what I like or what direction to point them in

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Anonymous 13w

bby don’t feel bad !! i’m afab nonbinary and only one of my sexual partners has made me cum, no one else has even gotten close. and even then most of the time it’s a a vibrator, only once in my life has someone made me cum “organically”. some of us just have a hard time! while it’s nice to finish, i would stop making that your goal. just enjoy the process !

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

I can! I haven’t tried but that sounds like a good thing to suggest, thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

Aghhhhh thank you, I really appreciate the assurance. It’s nice to know I’m not the only one lol. Honestly I don’t care much about orgasming cuz I get so much more out of the intimacy, but it’s my partner feeling guilty about it that’s hardest for me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

i get that !! it made one of my ex partners insecure, and honestly there’s not much you can do about that other than reassure them, and let them know that this is really normal too, with time hopefully they’ll understand and stop beating themself up about it:)

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