Anonymous #2 6w

I see this a lot online. People will complain that people in the comments are misgendering them. But they wont have their pronouns anywhere on their post. I feel like you can’t expect everyone to know immediately, I don’t know if that makes sense. Like not everyone is going to check your profile to see what pronouns you use

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Anonymous #1 6w

I see this a lot online. People will complain that people in the comments are misgendering them. But they wont have their pronouns anywhere on their post. I feel like you can’t expect everyone to know immediately, I don’t know if that makes sense. Like not everyone is going to check your profile to see what pronouns you use

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Anonymous #3 6w

Literally said I only see it online. I’m not saying this as a general thing duh. I just wanted to know the thinking of why

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Anonymous #3 6w

Like you can’t expect everyone online to immediately know your pronouns

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Anonymous OP 6w

You expect trans people to have their pronouns on any post they make, instead of other people taking two seconds and looking at a profile before typing a gendered comment?

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Anonymous #1 6w

Nope, I never said that, but you also can’t expect everyone to look that’s literally what my comment says. “‘Not everyone is going to check your profile to see what pronouns you use”

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Anonymous OP 6w

Your OG post said nothing about “only online” lmao. Maybe you shouldn’t be expecting people to assume everything is online without putting it in your post. Some of us go outside

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Anonymous #5 6w

I’m not expecting people to assume, people asked questions and I elaborated

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Anonymous #5 6w

Also my elaboration is one of the first comments, so if you’re commenting on this you’ll also see that

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Anonymous OP 6w

Yeah ngl I think you’re making that up

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Anonymous #2 6w

Go look at noelleleahh on tik tok, at around 27 seconds she’s says “the amount of you misgendering me in the comments.” I promise you this is not unprompted, all of her other points in the video stand. Respect someone’s pronouns and shouldn’t be hard. But also realistically you can’t expect random people in the internet to check your account first before they make a comment

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Anonymous OP 6w

Hey so you saw the video, you heard them say they’re being misgendered. You literally say in this comment respecting someone’s pronouns shouldn’t be hard. So why with the context of KNOWING THEYRE BEING MISGENDERED are you misgendering them??

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Anonymous #1 6w

Because just like I said I'm some random person on the internet. This is literally the first video I saw from this person. I'm going to try but l'll still forget. If you look at my other comment I use they but l'm just some strange, I'm going to try but l'm not perfect no one is (people make mistakes, you know you have friends how have slipped up a bit a first

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Anonymous #1 6w

Just watched the video. They’re saying that nonbinary people can look any way and don’t owe androgyny to anyone, and they don’t like the commenters assuming they’re a girl or that there’s a way girls look, because there’s not. You’re taking the words of a trans person who’s saying that nonbinary people can look any way, and blowing it up as if it’s a big issue and they were getting real mad. The video was jsut saying it’s okay to look any way and be nonbinary

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Anonymous OP 6w

You made a whole post about their video. Least you can do is not misgender them

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Anonymous #1 6w

I know that, but they still say the quote I gave babe

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Anonymous #1 6w

Like they literally say “ the amount of y’all miss rendering me in the comments

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Anonymous OP 6w

And follow it up with “this is how a nonbinary person can look like”

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Anonymous #1 6w

Yes, but you can’t expect everyone to know you’re non-binary just by the way you look

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Anonymous #1 6w

There’s no one way to look non-binary person so being feme presenting it’s a possibility with being misgendered because there’s no one way to look non-binary

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Anonymous #4 6w

Oh so you're just transphobic

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Anonymous #6 6w

if you knew anything about this person you’d agree. They literally purposely set up a camera and harass workers to try and bait them into misgendering them for views on tiktok An actual piece of shit making the LGBTQ movement look insufferable

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Anonymous #8 6w

I don’t believe someone being an asshole invalidates an entire group of people. If you think an entire minority group should be policed so they don't act like "one of the bad ones" then I frankly do not trust you. Do you care more about people who will only support the "good" queers then you care about how all queer people deserve respect?

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Anonymous #7 6w

No hate towards trans people on either side of the transition, but I’ve met a few people who’ve gotten mad when I’ve accidentally used the wrong pronouns

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Anonymous #9 6w

well, people shouldn’t be yelling at you over not knowing something. as long as once you know the right pronouns you do your best to use em you’re good.

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Anonymous #7 5w

Yeah no I completely agree but idk why people are downvoting me I’m not hating on anyone it’s just something that’s happened to me before 😭

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