Anonymous #1 5w

I mean I’d like to find a community that I could identity with. Due to my past experiences, I’m pretty lonely and feel like I lack a sense of self. A label would get me one step closer to a sense of self I so desperately need

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Anonymous OP 5w

“queer” is a perfectly serviceable label! so is “fluid”. I think finding other queer people (in person) of all experiences who you feel like you fit with would be the most helpful for you. a label in and of itself won’t give you community or belonging

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Anonymous #2 5w

Tbh I dunno. I’m still unsure. Like I find some men attractive and would date them but long term, i dunno

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Anonymous OP 5w

that’s okay. you can also id as a lesbian if-until you aren’t one anymore. if finding a label is important to you, then you can just use what works for you best now and then adjust if it changes later. you also don’t have to id as a lesbian in order to be part of the lesbian community/spaces/culture (whatever that means for you).

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Anonymous #3 5w

Yea that would be a mostly fitting label

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Anonymous #3 5w

For what possible reason was this downvoted

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Anonymous #3 5w

I dunno

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