Sometimes I think abt the time my partner explained to me what poly was and then asked if I was okay with them having a crush on a guy and told me if I wasn’t then they would drop it and never pick it up again, that’s how you approach your partner guys
I was completely okay with it for the record, I’m also poly but also demi so i just don’t really get crushes very easily. The guy my spouse liked ended up being a piece of shit and ghosted them a few months into dating