i feel like you’re being intentionally dense atp, pride is meant to make straight people uncomfortable, therefore yeah we are going to do outrageous shit and express ourselves to the fullest extent, and sometimes that involves kink. therefore it’s not necessarily a family friendly event because the event is meant to be outrageously expressive
i understand not wanting to be heteronormative, i really do, but unfortunately i feel like #2 makes a good point about how pride should also be accessible for families. children with queer parents, queer kids with straight parents, etc. and yeah, sure, some kink stuff isn't outright freaky and sex-centered but i still don't think that excuses exposing children to it?
boo and downvote me all you want, but if i was a parent and i knew exactly what that equipment/behavior/whatever meant, i still wouldn't want my kid to be around it. especially considering stories of now adults that have survived predatory behavior based on kink from parents or adults around them, it's important to consider these perspectives. i don't see literally any harm in branding things as 18+ or at the very least mentioning that kink is involved
you literally just do not understand the history of pride and choose to believe that seeing people w kinks in some way is harmful to children. i went to so many pride parades as a kid, all with kink present. i am fine. i’m not even involved in the kink community as an adult. this shit is not harming queer kids you just are made uncomfortable by things you don’t understand, much like a lot of homophobes!
You’re holding us back, and your inaction and strawmen arguments and whataboutisms will lead our community straight for the fucking camps, just like Germany almost a century ago. You either join forces with your community, or go back in the closet because you want to be “one of the ‘good gays’” to fascists who will end you anyway.