i haven’t been able to find any queer people that weren’t exclusive/cliquey. i don’t feel comfortable being out around the cishet people in my city either… so i feel very lonely and “in the middle”

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this is why i don’t really seek out “queer friends” as an adult, in my teen years it was so cliquey and since i didn’t have social media at the time (strict parents) i was always out of the loop or the “weird kid”

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Honestly I don’t know how I did it, but after 3 years in college I finally have a queer friend group, after experiencing all of the cliques and all that. If you’re gender queer, I will say that you will make much better friends with other gender queer people fs. Other than that it’s basically the same as making other friends; go to social events for hobbies or other things that interest you, talk to ppl in your community however you can, queer people tend to just gravitate to each other eventu

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