me and my partner are in this small friend group and one of our friends recently told us she wants to be in a relationship w both of us. our relationship is still really new and neither of us are really into the poly thing so we said no but that we still want to be friends. except i think this person thinks she’s still got a shot bc she’s kept flirting and she continually references the fact that she wants both of us…
& then just today she sent a message in our gc with other people that me & partner have too much pda in the gc even though we hardly even reference the fact that we’re in a relationship??? there is definitely very little pda and in fact more reference to the fact that she wants us than the fact that we’re together so i’m ?