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LGBTQIA+ 6w
Friends, am I just a lesbian if I call myself queer because I can see the appealing side of men but only for social reasons?
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Anonymous 6w

Girl huh

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Anonymous 6w

don’t know why you’re getting hate you’re just asking a question about your sexuality

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Anonymous 6w

lesbians don’t gaf about men

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Anonymous 6w

like in a lavender marriage/privilege way? bc if that’s the case then you’re probs just a lesbian, but idrk what you mean

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Anonymous 6w

what?😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

okay now why tf am i getting downvoted??

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

I wasn’t even one that downvoted so I don’t know

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

Yes kind of like a lavender marriage, but more like physically. Like having kids with a man would mean less hoops medically. My family would be less judgy. It would be more widely socially acceptable. I don’t think I really want to be with a man, but when I do, it’s because of things like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

This…is not what I meant.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I think you might just be a lesbian who’s aware of the privileges of a straight relationship; I’m aroace myself & have desperately wished to be able to have relationships because of the privileges that come with them (especially as I want kids myself). we might be in the same boat on that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

of course, we might not be: you might be a bisexual (or another variation) and may realize you’re attracted to men… or you’re a secret third thing. shit’s confusing regardless of where you end up 😭

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