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LGBTQIA+ 4d
im so fkng TIRED of dating. NOTHING i do works while everyone around me just stumbles into love. I don’t know what to do. I think i need to give up.
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Anonymous 4d

this is so relatable

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Anonymous 4d

The secret is that true pure love is always stumbled into accidentally

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Anonymous 4d

I didn’t find love until I stopped looking for it.. I really focused on myself and everything else just kind of fell into place. Find the things that you love about yourself and what you want out of your life as an individual… and let love find you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

tell that to my mom who is twice divorced and in her 50s and all alone. i don’t want that reality for myself and if i don’t put myself out there i am essentially guaranteeing it. i don’t WANT to wait 5, 10, 15 years so that maybe a hint of love might crawl in my direction and even then i might still fuck it up.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

we want to believe in this just world but the truth is that life is unfair and not everyone finds the people for them. i don’t want that to be me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

You are right, life isn’t fair. But start with finding satisfaction in yourself, and then maybe go from there. Like hobbies, career, friends… you can still put yourself out into the world, by doing the things that make you happy and.. maybe the one for you will be doing those things too

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