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This is the type of man saying that it’s misandrist to say you hate all men. Can’t even support ALL men
42 upvotes, 8 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+. "This is the type of man saying that it’s misandrist to say you hate all men. Can’t even support ALL men"
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Anonymous 8w

Poke a misogynist a transphobe comes out

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Anonymous 8w

okay but is it not misandrist to say you hate all men?? 😭 i would never say i hate all of one type of group because that’s such a generalization

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

They’re one and the same.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Misandry does not exist. The word was coined as a pushback to misogyny, wich is the systematic oppression of women by men. Men do not face a systematic oppression in the hands of women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

A misogynist is a person who is extremely prejudiced against women. That’s definitely an interpersonal use, not a systemic one. Understanding interpersonal dynamics and how they go on to influence systemic issues is like, super important. Misogyny can refer to both institutional/systemic and interpersonal. It doesn’t make sense to say misandry doesn’t exist bc it’s not systemic when misogyny doesn’t have to be systemic to be called misogyny

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

To be clear obviously there is no systemic/institutional hatred of men (ig people are looking for "the effects of the patriarchy" here if they're trying to talk about systems?). People can definitely hate men on an individual level tho. I wouldn't call it misandry because that word is... sullied by MRAs and (as you said), can imply a preexisting systemic bias against men which doesn’t exist

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

I think we’re focusing too much on my language and not enough on the man purposefully misgendering me because he views me as a woman and therefore less than and not to be taken seriously

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Dude I'm sorry this happened. It sucks and you shouldn't have been misgendered and that guy is an asshat and deserves to get his kneecaps rotated. And 2 asked a question (and yes did not adequately focus on what you were trying to point out) & I didn’t want to leave them room for ambiguity about using "misandry" in the future

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