As someone who’s witnessed bodyshaming of men in wlw spaces: there’s nuance. Many wish to vent valid frustration at forced attraction to certain bodies while others hold a genuine, unhealthy hatred. It’s not cut and dry.
Ngl I feel like we let gay men get away with too much misogynistic shit because a lot of them hide behind the guise of being “one of the girls”. No. You’re just mean and a bitch.