
bitch.sergeant.general
The community doesn’t really give space to afab people who are feminine, but don’t identify as women. Often we are treated like our lives lack the same nuance as other trans identities. It feels like I have no space to talk about the bigotry I experienceI’m not sure I’m understanding what you’re saying the community should do? 1 wasn’t exactly nice about it, but they’re right, transmascs are a large part of the community and by no means left out. You’re welcome to talk about the bigotry you experience anywhere it’s generally acceptable to talk about bigotry.
You’re literally proving my point. Transmasc enbies aren’t all femme lmao. I’m not non-binary! So like. Literally proving my point. You guys make baseless assumptions about people based on their gender nonconformity, and then you assert that their visibility is somehow not a disadvantage, even though when literally every other group of trans people face visibility, we acknowledge how that comes with violence and struggles.
I’ve faced so much misogynoir and transphobia that goes unspoken in the community because I’m not the right kind of trans man. I’m basically invisible until people feel comfortable disrespecting my identity and body autonomy. And I have no community to go to because everyone is too busy doing gender discourse to acknowledge that a label doesnt magically protect us and grant us space within the community. Like. This is exactly what I’m fucking talking about.
You guys feel way too comfort basically being transmeducalist, and bringing up afab nonbinary people like they aren’t also queer and face discrimination? Like you’re genuinely way too comfortable assuming my identity and then literally invalidating my experience solely because you think a group of people (that I’m not even apart of!) within the community already take up space? Which is just … misogyny dude. Lmao.