This is my philosophy in life when you look for one thing you’re going to forget about all the other things you see. If you look for a partner it can be really easy to become blind to those around you. Love comes in all different forms. And sometimes your best friend surprises you by being the love of your life and soulmate. So be patient (ik it sucks) be open to love (and sometimes love hurts) live in every moment because the best things in life are in life not in the future.
Basically I try to look at everyone with the idea that they have the potential to be super important to me or they might just be passing through both are fine. I’m gay so every guy i meet could potentially be a bf or just some dick but I’m going to let them decide who they are and not try to make them into what I want