LGBTQIA+ on Yik Yak | been trying to get my roommate (we’ve been friends for years) to go to the river with me for weeks. “oh i can’t, i need to work.” always finds them on youtube and insta. “oh my alarm didn’t go off” has no problem doing the same plans with their bf

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LGBTQIA+ 10w

been trying to get my roommate (we’ve been friends for years) to go to the river with me for weeks. “oh i can’t, i need to work.” always finds them on youtube and insta. “oh my alarm didn’t go off” has no problem doing the same plans with their bf

Anonymous 10w

that is the process when your friend gets into a relationship, and I know because i've not only seen it, but fell victim myself. when we dated, he was all my days every day and lost plenty of other social interaction. your roommate is just living their married life now, and there's nothing wrong with it, but the hardest part is the friendships that begin to dwindle.

Anonymous 10w

i’ve been asking for weeks and trying to make plans, they always back out which is fine, but i found out they went to the river spot i’ve been wanting to go to and didn’t even invite me. like they’re allowed to hang with their bf, but why am i getting left out of the one thing i’ve really wanted to do for a while?

Anonymous

#1 10w

they’ve been acting like this for a while tbh. completely obsessed with their bf. could give less of a fuck about everyone else. won’t attend plans with me unless their bf is coming too. every time we make plans with just us, they wake up late because their alarm didn’t go off. yeah right. ik you didn’t set one. but it literally seems so intentionally fucking mean to go do the one thing your friend has really been wanting to do with you, send pics of it, and not invite them.

Anonymous

OP 10w

and yes, when their bf is coming with us, they sit there and ignore me completely and just talk between themselves. i feel like their uber driver

Anonymous

#1 10w

I don't think this is always necessarily true I've been with my partner for over a year and when we can't see each other we text through the whole day so we're very attached lol but we still care for and respect our separate friends, like you can be in a healthy relationship and still have plenty of strong friendships we make separate plans for our own individual friends and when we know the other is out socializing we give each other space and text less