
This is exactly it. It’s not transmisogynistic to have a preference, what makes it transmisogyny is shouting it from the rooftops, bringing it up whenever someone tells you they’re trans, and/or assuming all trans women even have penises (many have bottom surgery). Chances are if OPs getting called transmisogynistic, they were doing a bit more than just having a genital preference
You probably should have just said that instead of vague posting, then? Most people are not chronically online enough to know twitter drama. Giving zero context, putting “transmisogyny” in quotes, and the way you phrased the post all come off quite differently than it seems like you intended them to. I’ve seen posts that were almost the same, word for word, from legitimately transphobic people
I was just explaining how your post came off... I already acknowledged in my first response to you (which I don't think you read past the second sentence of) that your wording and overall post "come off quite differently than it seems like you intended them to". That is why I mentioned that sharing context would really help. I don't think we're in the same conversation right now.