Fascism is characterized by a authoritarian government and ultranationalism which has nothing in common with liberal democracy. I would never support indiscriminate bombing of civilians. Iran’s government lacks public support and can be effectively destroyed or at the very least weakened by targeted strikes on leadership.
dude bombing places literally makes their social causes regress because those places then don't have the time or resources to focus on cultural issues. They get put into survival mode. And the US bombing these countries then makes these countries hate western countries and "western values" even more, which include feminism and lgbtq acceptance. Like when terrorists did 9/11, it just made Americans hate Muslims even more.
also idk how to tell you this but the dictatorships the US is sending money to are the ones that are also homophobic. And only "taking out the oppressors and not the civilians never works (and also doesn't happen). Someone else always steps up and if anything it makes those countries become even more paranoid and locked down against outside influence.
Even when we "only get the bad guys" we still destroy a lot of buildings. People's livelihoods are ruined and they have to pay money to rebuild their cities. So basically everyone is poor in these countries and can't access education that can lead to more progressive thought.