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LGBTQIA+ 9w
Constantly playing the game of “am I on the ace spectrum or am I just traumatized”
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Anonymous 9w

REAL. I thought I was ace for years, learned later it was mostly trauma. I still have a lower sex drive than most and am functioning under the demisexual label, but i have an understanding gf so tbh it’s all whatever atp.

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Anonymous 9w

WAIT A SECOND DO I KNOW YOU??

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Probably not lol - ive at least been told this isn’t just a me thing and that others have felt this way

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Are you from the Midwest?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Nope. I’m from the Deep South

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

I think I might be demisexual but I question my reasons for it. Like is it because I only feel safe enough to have sexual interactions with my partner? Idk the answer to that tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I mean if the label makes you feel good you don’t have to overly justify your use of it. But I consider myself demi because I generally need to know someone for a bit and date for at least a month before I’m ready to do anything sexual

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