Anonymous #1 21h

tbf it’s extremely important context, even if the OP didn’t check the kid’s account to find out he was a minor

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Anonymous #2 21h

How does that excuse bigotry

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Anonymous #1 21h

the way I never said it did

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Anonymous #1 21h

using a minor being sexually harassed by women as the posterboy of misogyny is gross as fuck, idk how that isnt obvious 💀

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Anonymous #2 21h

He’s not being used as “the posterboy of misogyny” omfg you’re ridiculous. Shes just calling out his misogynistic behavior that him and many other gay men tend to participate in. You know, because they are still men at the end of the day 🤦 just because he was harassed doesn’t make him above criticism especially if he’s a misogynistic bigot. Be fr

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Anonymous #1 21h

she’s using him as the epitome of why “gay men are not our allies” as if she couldnt find a better example than someone being actively sexually harassed. he’s not even a man, that is a child.

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Anonymous #2 21h

Because not everyone is chronically online and knows the past of this unknown individual. I’ve never heard or seen this person in my life how tf would the average person even know that

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Anonymous #2 20h

Children can still be misogynistic and it needs to be called out so what’s your point

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Anonymous #2 20h

Also did you see the fucking caption? As if women aren’t already hated on for their periods. It was completely unnecessary and inappropriate

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Anonymous #1 20h

it’s not “calling him out” when he’ll never see the post. using him as the single example of why “gay men are not our allies” is clearly making him the posterboy of the post. idk how this isn’t obvious 💀

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Anonymous #1 20h

This is NOT the hill to die on

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Anonymous #3 20h

Fighting misogyny within the gay community is 100% the hill to die on

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Anonymous #1 20h

you’re flip flopping between “he’s an actively-harassed minor but still deserves to have his image & post used over literally anyone else’s” and “but how were we supposed to know after you just told us?!?” like oml make up your mind. it’s a gross post that shouldn’t have been made, and it was posted by a minor in a high-stress abusive situation. you act like people want the OOP to be crucified lmao

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Anonymous #1 20h

That isn’t what OP is saying 😭😭 yes absolutely die on the hill of fighting mysogyny. The hill you are currently standing on is “it’s okay to sexualize a minor because he was mysogynistic”

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Anonymous #1 20h

misogyny ≠ pointing out how you could’ve used a better example than a fucking SEXUALLY HARASSED CHILD holy shit

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Anonymous #2 20h

^^^ AND even if you do not know the context of him being sexually harassed, that doesn’t mean it’s excusable? Like you didn’t know that. Okay, it’s still wrong? In fact I’d argue it makes you just as bad as him

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Anonymous #3 20h

Dude, WHAT????? This is why I fucking hate this community. Where did I ever, EVER say it was okay to sexualize a minor because he was misogynistic???? Because that’s a serious ass allocation you’re throwing around and it’s fucking disgusting

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Anonymous #1 20h

Accusation*

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Anonymous #3 20h

I’m begging for you to show me where I even implied that is was okay to sexualize a minor bc they are misogynistic because that’s a serious fucking allegation

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Anonymous #1 20h

tbf I don’t think you’re ok with him being sexualized. I do think you’re refusing to see how posting his image & post on a completely different app isnt “calling out” anyone, it’s just using a dogshit example of misogyny to epitomize gay men. whether or not the OP knew the context doesn’t matter. what matters is the reality of the situation.

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Anonymous #2 20h

Yet I’m accused of being okay with it. Yall are actually disgusting

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Anonymous #1 20h

what I’m saying is that yes objectively he was mysogynistic. Theres no arguing that and he should be held accountable. the same women he is offending immediately went to sexual harassment. And OP is calling that behavior out as counter productive. And you come here and say “okay but he was still a bigot” LIKE YEAH BUT THE WOMEN ARE ACTING LIKE PEDOS and you seemingly brushed over that

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Anonymous #1 20h

NOBODY ACCUSED YOU OF BEING OKAY WITH IT I CALLED TOU OUT FOR GLOSSING OVER THE DACT AND SAYING “well I didn’t know that” I admit my wording was a bit aggressive and I apologize

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Anonymous #1 20h

what’s disgusting is defending someone who posted a minor’s image in a place where he couldn’t defend himself so he could be subjected to ridicule by MORE women, as if he’s not being harassed already. you have no idea who saw that post, then took to his comments in retaliation. on top of that, the post is entirely misleading, whether intentional or not.

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Anonymous #3 20h

The women are pedos and he’s a bigot. That better?

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Anonymous #3 20h

Disgusting ass motherfucker deadass go fuck yourself. I was fine before but once you pulled this bs you set me off. As a CSA survivor seriously go fuck yourself

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Anonymous #1 19h

He’s not a man, he’s a boy, quite literally a boy, an underage minor

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Anonymous #4 18h

Sorry he’s a misogynist boy, forgive me

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Anonymous #1 18h

Yall don’t care about CSA survivors and this shows that. Throwing around pedophilic accusations then I get downvoted when I call that bs out.

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Anonymous #1 18h

They sexually harassed a minor. Yes. I am going to call that behavior pedophilic. He’s a boy. His actions are inexcusable but he’s a kid and he deserves the grace to change and be held accountable for his actions.

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Anonymous #3 18h

He is being held accountable for his actions but y’all shit your pants over it, then accused me of being okay with it

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Anonymous #3 18h

Yet I didn’t do any of that shit to him and you accused be of being okay with it, stupid fuck

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Anonymous #1 18h

HE WONT SEE THE POST 😭😭😭 HOW’S HE BEING HELD ACCOUNTABLE 😭😭😭

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Anonymous #1 17h

I am also a CSA survivor, I don’t toss it around when I’m told I’m wrong. He’s a child, a child who has been harassed and fetishized by who knows how many women because he’s gay, he said a shitty thing, he is misogynistic, I can agree, I can also say he doesn’t deserve what he’s getting. How about people stop using minors to call people out. There are plenty of grown gay men who are misogynistic, go call them out. Leave the child alone. Admit you’re wrong and shut up already

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Anonymous #2 17h

They don’t care about him being held accountable, they want a picture on the wall to throw darts at, they don’t care who the picture is of and don’t care to find a better target

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Anonymous #4 17h

I didn’t accuse you off tossing it around hop off. I was talking to #3

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Anonymous #4 17h

Umm no I won’t shut up. I’m not going to sit there and let people tell me I’m okay with CSA when I didn’t even imply that in the slightest.

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Anonymous #1 16h

Im accusing you of tossing it around. You’ve brought it into the conversation multiple times like it’s going to make people back off you. You can be survivor and be a dick, they aren’t mutually exclusive. You got told that he was being sexually harassed and women were being pedophilloic towards him and rather than acknowledge that, you have doubled down on him being an evil person and pulled out the CSA card in hopes people would stop calling you out

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Anonymous #4 16h

Okay then, I guess you’re okay with CSA since you don’t give af about victims if they don’t agree with you

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Anonymous #4 16h

I only brought it into the conversation because I was being accused of being okay with it

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Anonymous #3 16h

No they’re saying its weird to say that sentence. What caused it is abhorrent but women are an oppressed group and its weird to talk about them like that.

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Anonymous #1 16h

Like I said, you can be a victim and a dick. I don’t have to agree with you, it doesn’t mean I think CSA is okay. You however do seem to hold this mindset because when people pointed out this is a minor that has been harassed and his face is being posted in places he’s likely to not see it and people are gearing up to bully him, you are joining in. I can acknowledge he’s an ass with opinions like that, I can acknowledge he’s being sexually harassed, I can acknowledge he’s a minor

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Anonymous #5 16h

Fucking thank you.

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Anonymous #4 16h

So that makes it okay to accuse people to pedo shit bc they called out a minor on his behavior.

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Anonymous #1 16h

He is a child who shouldn’t be posted all over the internet, yes he posted first but children, especially teenagers, are notorious for being dumb. He’s a child who should be allowed to grow and change his opinions without having the internet holding him as a poster for gay misogyny

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Anonymous #3 16h

Yeah defo shouldnt brush over that

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Anonymous #4 16h

Okay so he somehow will never see it but is also a “poster” so which one is it

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Anonymous #1 16h

how are those mutually exclusive 💀

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Anonymous #1 16h

I’m didn’t say that. But I don’t think it’s your place to call him on shit, especially on an anonymous app that he most likely isn’t on, will never see your call out, and likely has no affect on his life except that it might send people to the app he is on to bully him. I think it’s disgusting to bully a child. I think it’s his parents, his family, his friends, and his teachers job to set him right. Not anonymous strangers

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Anonymous #4 16h

Well I’d didn’t make the post

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Anonymous #4 16h

Agreed #4

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Anonymous #4 16h

True true

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Anonymous #4 16h

You’re barking up the wrong tree babe, go take it up with the OOP

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Anonymous #1 16h

there is a DIFFERENCE between calling out shitty behavior and SEXUALIZING A MINOR I cannot believe this needs to be stated

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Anonymous #3 16h

Again accusing me of sexualizing children. Fuck off

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Anonymous #3 16h

Show me again where I sexualized a child

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Anonymous #1 16h

Am I barking up the wrong tree? Because I agree the OOP shouldn’t have posted that and started this shit, but you joined in on the bullying. You added fuel to the fire they started

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Anonymous #4 16h

I never even seen this kids account in my life how am I bullying him? All I said is he’s misogynistic and I’d don’t even know who he was. How tf is that bullying or “sexualizing a minor”

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Anonymous #1 16h

that’s not a fucking accusation!!! Kid said something bigoted. Women decided to sexualize him. We said don’t sexualize him. We called out sexualizing a minor. That’s not mysogyny, and that’s not accusing you of

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Anonymous #3 16h

Then why are you saying it to me like I was the one who did it???? Ive never heard of this kid on my life not have I defended the sexualization of him by older women

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Anonymous #6 13h

“But they’re bullying and harassing him and making him the poster boy of misogyny and if you call him out on it you’re basically saying that it’s okay to sexualize a minor because he’s misogynistic” comments incoming

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Anonymous #1 11h

it’s really funny that you took #6’s comment as agreeing with you. they’re right, the OOP didn’t intend to single out a sexually-harassed minor, it’s meant to use him as an example of gay men’s misogyny. the point is true, gay men can be misogynistic. #6 is right.

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Anonymous #1 11h

you, on the other hand, think she’s “calling out” this specific kid. that is objectively untrue (and the EXACT OPPOSITE of what #6 said lmao). “calling out” someone requires them to actually be aware of the “call-out,” and that’s simply not happening. you’re also acting like OOP would be justified to make the post while KNOWING she was reposting a sexually-harassed minor.

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Anonymous #2 11h

That was literally my point this whole fucking time but y’all attacked me

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Anonymous #2 11h

Yes I very obviously just attacking the kid

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Anonymous #1 11h

I already said what your point was, and it is diametrically opposed to what #6 said. maybe instead of strawmanning what others have said to you, clarify yourself if you actually agree with #6. say that you don’t think the post is a call-out. otherwise you’re not agreeing with them.

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Anonymous #1 11h

you said a bunch of shit in the other thread that directly contradicts what you’re saying.

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Anonymous #2 11h

How

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Anonymous #2 10h

Why are you telling ME what I think 😭😭

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Anonymous #1 10h

“clarify what you said” = telling you how you think?? girl YOU said how you feel. I’m asking you to amend that, because what you said earlier doesn’t agree with #6 at all. I explained how, I’m not sure what else you want from me

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Anonymous #2 10h

You’re completely twisting my words. You said that I think he’s just calling out this specific kid, whom I’ve never even seen in my life, when I said that gay in men general tend to be misogynistic. Hence the ss of my comment saying exactly that.

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Anonymous #1 10h

ngl if you just say it was a misunderstanding where you and I misspoke or misinterpreted each other and that you agree with #6, sure.

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Anonymous #1 10h

girl if you want to drop it then we’ll drop it, if you want to argue then we’ll argue. if you think #6 said it better than you, then say that.

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Anonymous #2 10h

I straight up said that GAY MEN IN GENERAL perpetuate misogyny (hence my comment again) and you took that as me just attacking the kid.

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Anonymous #2 10h

Not only that, but I was accusing of being okay with the sexual harassment of a child for no reason at all. I was never just singling out the kid. If you actually read my comments you would know this

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Anonymous #1 10h

because you did?

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Anonymous #2 10h

Did you not see my comment before that?

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Anonymous #1 10h

yeah and it qualifies literally nothing

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Anonymous #2 10h

Okay so I’m singling him out yet I said this at the same time. Make up your mf mind

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Anonymous #2 10h

He is merely an example of this misogyny problem

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Anonymous #1 10h

that’s not the comment before that but ok

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Anonymous #1 10h

and people are telling you he’s a bad example…

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Anonymous #2 10h

#6 literally said they’re using him as an example yet you didn’t piss your pants over that

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Anonymous #1 10h

yeah because they’re not acting like he’s a good example 💀 it’s literally that simple

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Anonymous #2 10h

I never said it was a good example 😭 where did I say it act like that? Also yes that comment where I was talking about gay men IN GENERAL perpetuate misogyny was posted before I said he was being held accountable. Literally just scroll up

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Anonymous #1 10h

and then you contradicted yourself by saying HE was being held accountable. it’s obvious to everyone but you.

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Anonymous #1 10h

it’s genuinely embarrassing that you’re insulting people because of your hurt ego. it’s not even about misogyny anymore, you just can’t be an adult and admit you misspoke. I’m not arguing with a goddamn child anymore 💀

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Anonymous #6 6h

I laughed out loud when I saw this 😭 ty for that lmao

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