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Why is this so accurate? 😭
695 upvotes, 35 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+. "Why is this so accurate? 😭"
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Anonymous 12w

Lesbians 🤝 ace girls Being tired of that shit

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Anonymous 12w

Can confirm. Being ace and straight is a fucking nightmare.

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Anonymous 12w

but they somehow can’t “fix” their own fucking attitude? 🤔

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Anonymous 12w

Being both asexual and biromantic is also exhausting, cause people are always like, “so you like anyone…but you also don’t like anyone?” And I gotta explain AGAIN for the millionth time that sexual and romantic attraction are TWO DIFFERENT THINGS 😭 And then they love to tell me that I can’t possibly know because I’ve never been in a relationship before 😀

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Anonymous 12w

and because I realized i actually wasn’t ace I was just young and demi everyone around me wants to use me as an example to invalidate ace ppl…no just cause i was wrong doesn’t mean they are 😭

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Anonymous 12w

Being an ace lesbian, can confirm

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Anonymous 12w

they should date

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Anonymous 12w

As a guy, I feel like being disappointed is… kind of understandable? But doubling down and just deciding “no no, I’m the one who’s right about this person who I am not very familiar with at this point’s identity. I must correct this” is BATSHIT INSANE.

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Anonymous 12w

Not allo lesbians telling me they can fix me 🤦‍♀️😭

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Anonymous 12w

That always makes me go

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Anonymous 12w

Has anyone else had this said to them by queer men as well or just me

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Anonymous 12w

Being an ace lesbian means you get this double time 🥲

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Anonymous 12w

How do you fix sunshine

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Saluting you sister 🫡

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Idk how many times I’ve heard “You’re not ace. You just don’t know what you’re missing.” I do know and I’m not missing shit.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Seriously!! I have been intimate before. I gotta say, the idea and suspense is a LOT better than the actual act and I don’t really enjoy either. Your dick isn’t the panacea you think it is nor is anyone fawning over it. It just scares most people. 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

I’ve heard of people talking about husband dick and good for them but I have only found intimacy…dull (not sure if that’s the right word but not worth it for sure)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Seriously!! I’ll be intimate with partners but it’s mostly so they can have fun and their joy brings me joy. It just feels like a chore to me. 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

people really just be looking for any reason to invalidate ace folks

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

This was literally my biggest obstacle when I realized I was lesbian and not bi😭😭I didn’t want to feed into the stepping stone stereotype💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

You are valid at every stage of coming into who you are. Labels are not destinations— they are simply landmarks along our journeys. ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Thank you🥹🫰🏾

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Being disappointed is even kind of stretch😭 men really feel entitled to every woman they see

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

That’s a fair point, I don’t like that I feel that way but it’s probably more of a self-esteem thing than an entitlement thing for me

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Ok I have no idea why I’m making this about me all of a sudden I will shut up now

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

For real like the amount of guy friends that have ended up blocking me/losing interest in the friendship after coming out to them was kinda shocking ngl

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Yeah I can understand disappointment finding out. I’ve had disappointment finding out someone I was romantically (not sexually) attracted to was gay and aro. I’m still friends with him today. The meme and the point I was trying to make using it was in reference to the batshit insane part.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Why would someone’s sexual orientation have anything to do with YOUR self esteem. Just admit that there’s more to human connection than just nabbing the first girl you see and move on

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 12w

Im sorry you experienced that, sadly some of us are really shitty 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Some, yes. But not all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

Unfortunately some of us ace girls are straight 😞

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 12w

I am SO sorry. Makes me embarrassed to share an identity with some of those assholes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

You mean one person’s experience doesn’t define what it’s “really” like for the whole group??? :0000 Wow its almost as if we lead unique lives like be so fr people many things can be true at the same time

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 12w

Exactly yeah. People rlly be out here using one persons experience to discount a whole group of ppl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I usually ask how they know they are straight if they havnt have gay sex before and that shuts them right up

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