
Stole this definition from somebody because I suck at explaining: Aegosexual is an identity within the asexual umbrella that describes someone who feels aroused by sexual content (such as porn), but who doesn't typically want to engage in sexual activity. Some aegosexual people describe this experience as feeling a disconnect between themselves and the sexual elements that are arousing them.
I hear this actually. As a trans woman, I often find myself uncomfortable with sex as an action, but that really comes from feeling like my body doesn’t belong to me. I do write and read smut, and enjoy it, and am a bit of a domme on here, but it’s really for me about giving, not reviving, so idk. Maybe it’s just a trans thing, and not a sexuality thing. But I hear you with that. We need to talk more about the community, and its spectrums.