if gay means that a man likes other men, then a cis man with a trans man is a gay relationship. likewise for a cis lesbian woman who is with a trans lesbian woman

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This is actually a huge overarching issue I have with our language bc we neglect to differentiate sexuality and gender attraction, and I think a lot of our conversations would be better if we did. But there’s also no one perfect way to do that (I mean I personally have my solution but not everyone will agree). So until then we’ll just kinda have to over communicate to get our own definitions across

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Like saying that is bisexual does not invalidate the persons gender because we’ve already established that gender≠sex

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I think another thing to remember is that not everything has to have a label

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