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LGBTQIA+ 7w
Told someone I may be asexual got ghosted love tinder!
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Anonymous 7w

Tinder is overwhelmingly horny people. You might have better luck on Hinge or one of the other apps

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Anonymous 7w

How are you gonna be asexual but on Tinder?

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Anonymous 7w

Trouble with dating apps is it’s hard to find genuine connections in a sea of folks looking for a quick hook up, but I’ve managed to snag a few casual dates on tinder here and there in the past. I’d recommend going to more queer events if you can, even if you don’t meet anyone there compatible they might know others 👀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

asexual ≠ aromantic

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

agreed, pretty sure my friend met her bf on hinge and she’s ace

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Their point was probably that Tinder is generally a horny hookup app

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

asexual people can still have sex lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

I doubt the average person on tinder (the horny hookup app) is an expert on the ace spectrum 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

that doesn’t change my statement, nor does it have anything to do with why OP would be on Tinder, but ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

If you’re asexual and you tell the average person on the horny hookup app that you’re asexual, they’re probably not gonna know much about it and they’re likely gonna assume you’re not interested in sex. Why be on an app with people like that where sex is like the main thing, rather than a different app where people are more likely to understand/care about more than that

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

Queer dating apps have a much lower user count and it’s even worse in smaller towns, so some of us don’t really have a choice Why ghost people instead of just sending a quick message lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Not justifying the ghosting part, just explaining the comment asking why they’re using tinder of all things

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